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Post: # 107460Post gigglybug »

Sorry mini rant!

My neighbour keeps parking in our drive, he is having work done on his house and instead of parking on the road about 50m away he just parks on our property. I wouldn't mind so much if the space wasn't used but it is, its for our two flats and my OH's parents really can't walk that far when they visit.
He doesn't even speak when he see's us, we are not his kind of people :dave: . I really think he believes he has the right to do as he pleases.
Does living on a private road make a difference? do we have less rights?
I havn't approached him yet because I want to know where I stand.

Does anyone have any advice?

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Post: # 107462Post Clara »

If it´s actually ON your property then I think that´s trespass no?

I´d be wary of starting one of those boring neighbour wars over it, but he´s a cheeky tike isn´t he? Could you get someone else to use the space (assuming he must go out sometimes?), might just prove the point and he wouldn´t be able to argue about a thing.
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Post: # 107463Post Milims »

If your drive is privately owned by you he has no right to park there at all. Even if it isn't privately owned by you I'm pretty sure he'd have to have your land lords permission to park there, and if the provision of the parking space is part of the rental agreement the land lord should ensure that the drive is for the tenants use. To be honest I'd call the police either way - and remember if he starts getting at you for it any two incidents that cause you concern/discomfort is classed as harassment - so keep a diary. Ok I'll climb down off my high horse now! I just really hate it when people think that they can simply get away with doing just as they like with no concern for anyone elses needs or feelings. Good luck!
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Post: # 107476Post MKG »

Ask someone else to park between his car and the exit. He can't do anything about it if he's on someone else's property without permission. Maybe he'll get the message.

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Post: # 107529Post AXJ »

MKG wrote:Ask someone else to park between his car and the exit. He can't do anything about it if he's on someone else's property without permission. Maybe he'll get the message.
Perfect solution, block him in, excellent thinking... I was going to suggest letting his tyres down, but that is much better!!! :bom:

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Post: # 107565Post the.fee.fairy »

I was going to suggest the letting the types down route too!

But blocking him in is perfect, especially if you're either not in, or not appearing to be in when he wants to go out!

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Post: # 107574Post Brij »

Yeah, people like that need to be reminded what inconvenience feels like!
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Post: # 107597Post happy place »

i agree with boxing his car in or all try putting a parking sign up saying private property no parking clamping in force release fee £200
or knock on his door and tell him if he wants to park on your property a season ticket costs how ever much you fancy
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Post: # 107652Post witch way? »

Hi gigglybug, The police wont want to know as its on private property and therefore a civil dispute. Try putting up a sign which says 'parking £20 a night'. If you look at public car parks you can get the wording right - something to the effect that if you park here you accept these terms and conditions. You can then sue him for the dosh afterwards. But you'd have to prove it and even if you won you've then got to get the money out of him.

You could ask him to move it and if, after a reasonable time he hasnt done so, after giving him notice, you are legally entitled to remove his car but if you do any damage to it you may have to pay if a judge decided you were not careful enough and you would have to leave it somewhere reasonable too. No you cannot tow it to the nearest scrap yard. :mrgreen: You could try to sue for trespass but only for the cost of any damages you've suffered and I can't see that you've suffered any from your post. However I would try absolutely everything I could before going down that (VERY expensive and RISKY route).

Then, even if all that succeeds, you've got to live next to the awkward B*gg*r afterwards.

Have you tried appealing to his better nature by asking him not to park there as you need it for your in-laws who cant walk far. If you haven't said anything to him, he may think you dont mind?

It also looks from your post as if the situation might be only temporary. I know how irritating it is but could you bear it for the duration of his building works?

We have a similar situation where a neighbour parks across our access and we really do bite our tongues because I know that it would escalate and he can be nastier than we are prepared to be. I like the blocking in idea, might try that here. :wink: ww
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Post: # 107672Post gigglybug »

Thankyou for all your replies!!

I really wanted to let his tyres down but Oh wouldn't let me :roll: :mrgreen:
My OH asked him to move it, which he grudgingly did. So I hope that will be the end of it. If not I now have lots of great ideas, so Thankyou :flower:

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Post: # 108503Post theabsinthefairy »

I know your problem is solved but I couldn't resist telling you my tale of woe!

I used to live at the end of a road that had access to a playing field and a large turning circle, my house with 3 other neighbours was accessed by a short private road opposite the playing field access. ( hope you understand the layout).

When the sunday football guys turned up, the local team would be reasonably considerate and not block our private road, but opposing team players and supporters - not so considerate.

We got really fed up of asking them to move and people would deliberately ignore you and pretend it was not their car. We had the police and the fire department down because they were blocking access to our fire hydrant point and the police issued warnings and a couple of tickets - worked for a couple of weeks and then back to normal!!!GRRRR


At this point my OH changed his job - to 24 hr recovery, which meant he had to have access in and out of our road at all times of day and night - sunday footballers be damned!

So we went round the pitch asking the owners to move their cars - to no avail - we put warning notices on the cars - to no avail - so then we 'moved' the cars. (Having called the police - who just laughed and asked what sort of recovery vehicle it was and on hearing it was from the same firm and the same driver and lorry they used to remove vehicles from the side of the road - informally said they would be a while responding to any calls in relation to a disturbance from our street).

Parking problems solved after three cars took a half mile trip down the road.

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Post: # 108513Post AXJ »

theabsinthefairy wrote:
Parking problems solved after three cars took a half mile trip down the road.
That is absolutely priceless, great story... mind you having to change one's occupation to resolve a parking issue is perhaps a bit too much (only kidding) :cheers:

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Post: # 108613Post gigglybug »

:lol: :lol: :lol: What a fab story!

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Post: # 108627Post Devon Dumpling »

Love the story!!!

We had a few problems with our neighbours at our old property.

1) a row of five terraces had a shared driveway (we were each responsible/owned a paticular fifth) and two private spaces each. We would go out for the day and find people parked in our spaces - we blocked them in in this case. When we were at home, because we only have the one car, we parked in the middle of the two spaces.

2) We were prepared to take this one further as the neighbour was taking the piss. Opposite our row of terraces were one of two semis (the front of our house faced the side of the semi, the neighbour, who had no rights over the shared driveway for the five terraces decided to put a sneaky gate opening out onto our parking spaces/particular fifth. She then got the builders in the landscape the back garden so rather than gaining access by going through her garage, they started using the shared drive and parking in our spaces. Then they had the nerve to start leaving their waste material on our part of the shared drivway (basically they swept it out her gate and that was it. We (not so subtlely) started taking photos of this for evidence and thankfully it was moved the next day. As soon as this had been cleared up I started parking my car right outside the gate (it was our part of the driveway and did not stop anyone else from getting out the shared driveway) as I got the train to work so it was no hassle to me to leave it there. If you could have seen the look on her face the day she opened the gate and found my car blocking the way - priceless!!! Strangely enough she got the message!
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