Hi rcoe, welcome back and congratulations on the (not so) newcomer
We live in wind central up here and one way I've found of counteracting it (a bit) has been to double the height of the raised bed (the structure not the soil). Obviously, with some of the winds we've been having this last couple of weeks the veg still get a bit of a battering but nothing has been flattened and it all seems to be growing quite nicely.
As for time, all I can say is enjoy your little one while he/she is tiny - the rest of it will still be there when the youngster's off out doing their own thing. Plus living with something for a while helps you decide what you really want/need/can afford/ need to plan for etc etc.