azjh77 wrote:While at work yesterday I was into the 'office' - again - for a 'back to work meeting'. (Was in hospital last week)
I was told I wouldn't get a bonus due to being ill 'all the time' and on top of that HR ballsed my wages up and left me 200 pound short!
I'm not ashamed to say I burst into tears at the stress of it all (200 quid! I need that money!)
My boss said she thought I was depressed etc, and 'hadn't my husband noticed i was always bursting into tears' - to which I replied 'I'm not like this at home! I've got 4 kids to chase after! and animals to feed and cakes to bake! Like I have time to be miserable at home!'
Light bulb moment! I need to work somewhere that complements my ISH life - not somewhere that makes me miserable!
That is just what it ended up like in my Job, and I decided it wasn't worth it.
I was pregnant, and pregnancy was obviously not suiting me, I would get pains and feel really tired, I was finding it difficult to keep up at the same pace I had been (which was at least 3 times more than anyone else did anyway)
My manager suggested that maybe I should take it easy in the morning and not walk into work so I could last through my 4 hour shift - So forfit getting any housework or cooking done in the morning aswell as the evening because I was too exhausted....
Luckily I had a very nice doctor, I burst into tears when she asked me how work was and signed me off for the rest of the pregnany - wouldn't take no for an answer.
Your boss sounds like a right eejit - I wonder if they were told they were getting no bonus after having HR making mistakes in their wages - I wonder if they might get a little bit stressd too
I hope you are able to sort out your thoughts, just now might not be the best time to quit your job, but it beats being miserable in your job.
Fee - sorry, can't help there.......