don't want to go to work!

[yugogypsy]

I agree, get a calendar and keep ticking off the days.

Rick (my partner) suggests every night when you get home-just relax and do deep breathing for 10-15 min. to get rid of the stresses of the day.

I agree, put on some relaxing music, sit down , close your eyes and just breathe.

HUGS
Lois

[the.fee.fairy]

Well...

They were being very nice to me today. I've gone from being 'Fiona' (said in a harsh, i'm going to have a go at you kinda way to 'Fee' said in a light, airy way.

I think they got a bit shocked that i cried to be honest...i'm not exactly the crying type!

On the neighbour front, they were on the roof today clearing up their cigarette butts, and apparently mum caught them playing football up there (on a flat roof...not a supported proper-go -out and walk on it roof...a normal flat roof) so she told them that it wasn't a football playing area. I think the landlord must have had a word. I'm wndering whether he's going to do a spot-check on the room, see if there's any damage from the furniture being thrown at the wall last night...

So hopefully,i should get a good night's sleep tonight, and hopefully, the people at work will still feel guilty tomorrow...14 weeks left...14 weeks left...

[ocailleagh]

I don't know how helpful this is to you fee, but there's a herbal tea I swear by called tranquility tea, its made by Dr Stuart. It really does the trick for me when I'm getting super stressed (and I really don't handle stress well so its a miracle in a cup!). Its available in most independant type health food shops, and I have seen it in some supermarkets too.
Otherwise, I can only echo what everyone else has said, chin up and focus on your piercing course etc. Also, if you need anyone to practise on, I could always use a few more bits of metal lodged in my body lol

[ocailleagh]

Oh! And if you'd like, I could always send some Reiki, if you're up for that kinda thing.

[yugogypsy]

And I send love and hugs

Lois

[happy place]

hi fee
hope work is still being nice to you, and the nieghbours have become nice people who respect others.
thinking kind things and warm thoughts and sending them to you







try hard mean well and never give up

[Thomzo]

How's it going Fee? Have you handed your notice in yet? I think the best time in any job is the time between handing your notice in and leaving.

Keep taking it one day at a time and tick off the days as you go.

Keep smiling.

Zoe

[the.fee.fairy]

Its interesting...

My boss has been trying to convince me to stay all week. In subtle, cryptic ways. Then, last night she just said it outright 'I don't want you to leave. there are some people who i want to work here for a long time, and to take far...and you're one of them. Do you have to leave?'

I mumbled something pretty non-committal.

I'm still leaving!! 28 July i hand my notice in, and 28 August will be my last day.

[Dori]

Fee, do you think you could have another talk with your Boss? If she has been outright in saying she doesn't want you to leave, could you maybe ensure some changes are made through her at work which would make it bearable?

I worked for one company which was totally awful I hated it, the people were so unkind and unhelpful, I was dreadfully unhappy. Unlike me, I went sick, and never returned!

I started work for my present company 15 years ago, and didn't like it at all to begin with. Had a girl that took a dislike to me instantly, but stuck at it. It turned out I was taken on as permanent and she was an ongoing temp, but not happy about it!! That was a bad 18 months but then she left, which eleviated the problem in the department! Through the years I've moved to different parts of the company, and am really happy now where I have been for the past 4 years.

Can talk to someone about how you feel openly and honestly, if that's an option you will feel better about leaving or staying whichever way it goes.

Work takes up so many hours of our lives, it needs to be a place where you feel happy!

Good luck...

[happy place]

just an idea Fee if the boss really dosn't want you to leave ask for large pay rise and shorter hours; worst which can happen you get sacked gonner quit anyway






try hard mean well never give up