We always make our own cards, we usually get the day off of work and watch DVDs and eat lots of popcorn, pizza, burgers (all home made 'junk food') It's just about spending time together.
We usually give each other a few DVDs, CDs or books.
We don't get into the bears holding lovehearts, balloons and red stuff...
This is only our second year with a sprog around... I can't remember what we did last year

Anyone got any other ideas for how we can all make it special... in a non-commercial way?