mmmmm a bit private but i didnt know where else to post

[Russian Doll]

i've experienced the same problem and i know its incredibly frustrating so my heart really goes out to you. it is shocking that your doctor would suggest HRT!!! what a p*ll*ck!!!! it helps if u can talk about it with yr hubby as you need to be understood. i was reading a book that wasnt smutty per se (zadie smith) but did have a sex scene in it and that was when i first felt it kick back in. obviously, hubby doesnt get it as much as he'd like to (does any man?!) but a year on from the birth of LO i'm slowly getting my libido back, so theres hope yet, just dont rush yourself, loss of libido is a natural contraceptive that is probably all too welcome soon after the birth of a child!! are u breastfeeding? i was up until LO turned one and til then my boobs had been a no-go area for hubby but i'm thinking that could change soon too...
as for supplements, i've used one called horny goat weed in the past which i got from H&B. it was pricy, but helped. not sure if your allowed to take it when BFing though but could help!!

give yourself time and just know that your not alone. loss of libido is incredibly common post-partum, but that doesnt make it any easier on a relationship! i know how u feel!!

thanx all...im not breastfeeding...and maybe should have mentioned zachy is 3 this december
i went and bought aome zinc suppplements yesterday and the lady in there said about horny goat as well

[boboff]

As a man, it is the same with your wife, but luckily we can take mistresses! (joke, for the more up tight of you)

I know after our first I couldn't face that place for at least 6 months, out of fear of hurting, and also the nightmare labour meaning it was not a thing I wanted to be reminded of.

Anyway, what I would say was, don't think "sex" just have a go at playing rudees and see where you get to, oh and get a bit drunk..