I am really sorry to ask this on this forum. I know it really isn't very 'ish (I didn't have the cheek to post it in the alternative transport forum!) but I could do with picking the brains of any mechanically minded people.
Our car is being a real pain and we can't afford to send it to the garage twice in one month!
It is intermittently cutting out - we could be doing 75 on the motorway, or standing still in traffic, it doesn't seem to make a difference. Suddenly and without any warning at all, the engine cuts out. The oil light and the battery light both come on. It is possible to re-start the car while going along by turning the key - although not always the first time, and it seems to be taking longer to start as the problem goes on. When it stops when the car is stationary, it has to be pushed to get it to start again (most of the time).
It is really intermittant - we have gone weeks without it happening, then sometimes it happens twice in one day, then it is weeks again...all which makes it very expensive to fix, as there is nothing obviously wrong with it. We took it to a local mechanic who replaced the ignition coil, leads and distributor cap (plugs were fine), the battery is new. We assume then that it isn't an ignition issue.
So does anyone have any other ideas? We checked the air filter this morning, which is fine. Might it be a fuel pump problem? Should have said it is a VW Golf and is an R reg. And it is purple!
I would be really grateful for any suggestions of what might be wrong - and whether we can fix it ourselves with a rudimentary degree of mechanical knowledge and a Haines manual!?
I hate cars - would much rather get the train but sadly (and inexplicably!) this is twice the cost of driving

Thanks in advance for any hints.
Bonnie