Advice needed on neighbour

[thesunflowergal]

I did Jampot, would rather the baby was safe than sorry. Thanks for the hug hun x

[MKG]

I wish I'd known about the shopping trolley - I wouldn't have suggested what I did.

No, there's no amount of reasonable discussion going to get past that. Take everyone else's advice and get the authorities involved.

Mike

[thesunflowergal]

SFG, given your location, this might be useful:

http://www.swindon-csp.org.uk/csp-anti-socialbehaviour

Thank you Stoney, very useful x

[Thomzo]

Arghhhh - stuffing forum. I typed up a long reply and the website chucked me out just as I pressed post.

Anyway, what I said was something along the lines of:

Sorry to hear you're still having problems with this idiot.

Is this the house that's rented out? If so do you know who the landlord or letting agent is? You should alert them. They may be able to evict him for the drug taking or if he's damaged the house.

Good luck

Zoe

[battybird]

That looks like a really useful link! Wish all councils were as speciific in their help!
Nikki, M&S (and most supermarkets) will usually collect their trolleys if advised where they have been left..a word in the local store might at least deal with that issue without you being seen to be involved! Good luck

[Mrs H]

I don't envy you in this situation and I completley understand why your partner would want to eject this bloke from your property.The problem is this: you either get the authorities to deal with the problem,with the risk that they aren't that bothered,are too busy etc. etc.or you deal with it yourself,in which case you or someone else has to impose themselves on the offending person with so much force that they are persuaded to back down.( I trust you understand what I'm getting at ).I'm not publically advocating the second option,but I'm sceptical of the first. Best wishes I hope you can sort this quickly. Jerry.

I'm afraid I hav to totally agree with Jerry here. Unfortunately authorities now just don't have the time to sort stuff like this out and more often than not can actually aggravate the situation further. In many cases a quiet word from someone in the neighbourhood can work a treat. However I must stress that I am very concerned for the welfare of the child and do feel that u should contact ur local social services department. They then hav to investigate and this in turn while helping the child may also alleviate ur situation. Good luck and loads of hugs. Xx

[ajs88]

I agree with all of the advice given, however you need to know all of your options especially as this could be a very long term problem. If he is a council tenant then he has violated his tenancy agreement and you can contact the local authorities housing department who can evict him. If he is a private landlord tenant then you can complain to the estate agent/landlord who will be unlikely to renew his tenancy.

Personally I would contact PACT, the police and the housing department/landlord