facebook abuse

[crowsashes]

just need to vent! im getting repeated abuse from my aunt ( yeah i know pathetic) so much so shes threatening to come down to my house because she 'has a car' now ive done everything in accordance with facebook, reporting and blocking etc even printed out the abuse to give to her dad ( my grandad) they live together and its always me that gets it in the neck so this time im having no more of it and have the nasties on paper in black and white.

im just fed up as only last week she ( at 40 something) was abusing my siblings ( 11 and 14) so i stepped in and told her where to go. kids shouting at kids happens they can deal with it ( they have massive mouths my sisters do) but a grown woman doing it is not on.

yet we all got a hell of a telling off even though we were just sticking up for each other!

now shes even getting her kids in on it!!

im keeping and printing out anything ive been sent. and have had a bar put on my phone ( witheld numbers as i keep getting prank calls from witheld numbers)

its just annoying!! i use this stuff to keep in touch with friends all over the place and now im being confronted with abuse

[Catalysthere]

She sounds like a total loser-Why don't you drag her onto the Jeremy Kyle show?
You would have a lot of fun while he rants at her as at her as she should know better.
She would then be publicly humiliated for her childish behaviour and abuse of children and you would have the satisfaction of taping it for posterity!!

Just a thought.

[crowsashes]

im embarrassed to say her twin sister was on there a while ago

[Annpan]

Just thought I would share my best wishes with you.... I know it isn't easy

[mrsflibble]

yeah, same best wishes from over here

[JillStephens7]

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaargh!

As my lovely friend put it the other day 'Why can't everyone just be nice?' !!!!!!!!!!

Ridiculous, rotten and bloody exhausting.

All the good vibes I can muster on their way xx

[JulieSherris]

I can't exactly give you advice, but I can offer my and hope you come out the other end relatively unscathed.

Add as many Ishers as you can to your FB mateys - that'll cheer you up, we're a right lovely bunch!! x

[MuddyWitch]

Can't offer more than

MW

[marshlander]

Wish I could help -

[crowsashes]

its almost all sorted. i told my grandad ( he lives with my aunt) and he called up his internet supplier and had it switched off :-D i couldnt think of a better punishment myself.

the only problem i know it will start again soon, its a cyclic thing from her. she loses interest moves on to the next then it starts all over again :-(

[JillStephens7]

Glad to hear there should be a lull if not an end to it all. Thank goodnesss for grandad.

I do wish people would sort their anger out instead of taking it out on the wrong people.
Hope you get some respite now

[crowsashes]

i know why shes doing it, its to do with money shes trying to alienate the whole family from my grandparents so she can get her hands on their money. she rubs it in that shes got 'their ' cash and we havent. it makes me sad to think my grandparents were ripped off. so much so my grandad is 70 ( he dont look it!) and is STILL having to work even though he retired a few months ago he has to go back. :-( they had a nice retirement pot a few years ago, they planned to sell their house and get something smaller live off the rest but the vile aunt persuaded them to buy a house with them much much smaller than the last knowing full well they wouldnt be happy forcing the grandparents to eventually move out and she has pocketed near enough a 100K not to mention what ever was left over that the granparents give her via sob stories :-(

i wish i had the cash to take them to court and get the money back for them.

[JulieSherris]

And I'm feeling very fortunate that I was an only child... and then married an only child!
Phew!!

[Susie]

...this is why I'm glad my partner's mother doesn't have internet and doesn't know about facebook. Sympathy from me, I've had stuff like this from people.

[Millymollymandy]

Really sorry to hear about it Crowsashes.