Ann, I wish I had a friend like you when my mum went!
We spent 5 days eating from the chippy or the kebab shop - often not until after 10pm by the time I realised what time it was
Our biggest problem was the state of her house - and the insistence of her partner to have her body brought back to the house..... and with folk 'popping in' and when I say the house was in a state, I really mean it.
Once we'd cleared the stuff we wanted to keep, & everyone else was brought to live with us in Blackpool, the council sent a bill for the house clearance of over 5 thousand pounds.

Yep, Mum was a hoarder.
I would have loved someone to have put an arm around me & to let me have a chance to grieve, but I was too blumming busy scrubbing, washing carpets, clearing up after the animals, etc etc.
It sounds like your neighbours are very lucky to have you - and we're lucky to have you on here too!
