Last night I posted a reply on a thread, and I'm sure that as usual I pressed the submit button, then went and checked the post was there. However, today it's not there any more. Now I don't think my post was offensive in any way, but for some reason it's gone. If it's been deleted by admin, what is the usual procedure? Would the person deleting it normally contact me to let me know why? Or do these things just disappear quietly without explanation? Or is there a bug in the system that wiped my post off? Or did I drink too much wine last night

and imagine the whole thing? It is possible that I made a mistake as my concentration was interupted by a teenage quarrel right outside the bedroom door where LO was asleep.
The thing is, if my post has been deliberately deleted, I would like to know why
