Annpan wrote:There are those of us who have put our blood, sweat and tears and gambled everything we had, just so we could own our own piece of land.
I couldn't agree more. I could have done as some people known personally to me have done and lived it up, spent all my money and then screamed about how it wasn't fair that I couldn't have what I wanted.
Or I could do what I did—worked my butt off, put up with more than 20 years of biting my tongue, then put all but a grand of what I'd accrued into the place I wanted. (I always keep something for a truly rainy day.)
I earned truly crap money at times and quite good money at others, but I always managed to put aside a little something. I knew I couldn't get what I was after at 20, 25, 30, or even 35 but did manage to surprise myself by getting it before I was 40.
I would have kept going until I was 50 or 60 if it had been needed, but managed to do it while the boys were young and that has been the biggest plus of all.
If you really want it, start small, stay determined, be tenacious and always keep the dream in mind. But please don't fritter time and money away, then tell me I've had it lucky and it's not fair.