Hi Hellsbells, just stumbled accross your update - didn't spot it at the time.
I agree with Susie - they are being childish. In fact they sound like the group of girls in Muriel's Wedding!
It must be annoying not knowing what you supposedly did though. If they won't let you address the situation, what are you supposed to do about it? Grrr!
But you sound like a nice person to me anyhow, so don't let them knock your confidence.
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Sounds like you've just grown apart or your friend needs to do a bit of growing up.
I wouldn't waste any more of your time feeling sad, it was really cruel of her to text you to say you'd upset her and some of your other friends at your wedding ... who needs a friend who thinks it's ok to send texts like that!
And her playing the silent treatment now is even more childish .. don't you just hate folk you have to walk on eggshells for!
Let her go is my opinion.
I wouldn't waste any more of your time feeling sad, it was really cruel of her to text you to say you'd upset her and some of your other friends at your wedding ... who needs a friend who thinks it's ok to send texts like that!
And her playing the silent treatment now is even more childish .. don't you just hate folk you have to walk on eggshells for!
Let her go is my opinion.
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lol..hun i would not get stressed at this
i pissed of my new sister in law at my wedding because i did not take time away from my sister who i hadnt seen in ten years to talk to her...she stropped off took the pressie and hasnt spoken to me since..that was 6 years ago now and shes lost out on so much..two gorgues nephews and her own brother who doesnt want to know her
so dont worry about it lifes to short and your great
i pissed of my new sister in law at my wedding because i did not take time away from my sister who i hadnt seen in ten years to talk to her...she stropped off took the pressie and hasnt spoken to me since..that was 6 years ago now and shes lost out on so much..two gorgues nephews and her own brother who doesnt want to know her
so dont worry about it lifes to short and your great