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Post: # 228092Post KathyLauren »

When we moved from the big city to a little rural island, I thought we'd be slowing down. Everything laid back and mellow. Pull a few weeds in the garden every now and then, and then relax in the hammock with a beer.

The reality is that I am busier then I ever was. I get drafted to serve on this organization or that board. I volunteer for stuff because it seems like a good cause. There's the garden to run if I can find the time, the house needs routine maintenance, and the wife keeps thinking up new projects for me to build (thanks, dear! :roll: ). And that's in addition to being on the volunteer fire department. I've had to quit one board just to avoid burning out, and I've stopped doing computer consulting because it doesn't pay well enough to be worth the time it takes up.

I'm not seriously thinking of moving back to concrete, insane traffic and noise, but it's a heck of a pace to live this peaceful life!

I think that the community we live in may be an exceptional one, but I wonder if others find the same thing. Anyone else busier living the "good life" than they were in the rat race?

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Post: # 228097Post Millymollymandy »

Oh absolutely! I used to work from 9-5, have a clean house, cook proper dinner every night, knit, garden and grow veg in pots like tomatoes and chillies - and still have most of my weekends free to do things. :shock:

I don't know where it went wrong. :lol:
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Post: # 228103Post bonniethomas06 »

Hehe, I think my problem is that I am still in the ratrace AND living the not so peaceful, peaceful life.

It got to the point last month when I wasn't really enjoying things - constantly stressing at work all day, dashing back on the motorway and doing housework and boring stuff at home in the evening, then all weekend getting up early and pushing myself all day to make the most of the daylight and stressing because I was behind with stuff.

Thankfully most of the digging is done now, so from now on it is just nice stuff like sowing/hoeing and grass mowing, and I can calm down a bit. Might even get a day off to see friends this weekend. Woohoooo!

Wouldn't change it though - work will have to go before growing stuff does! :flower:
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Post: # 228120Post Stonehead »

KeithBC wrote:I think that the community we live in may be an exceptional one, but I wonder if others find the same thing. Anyone else busier living the "good life" than they were in the rat race?
I used to do an 80-hour week for a high salary—it would be into six figures today without allowing for promotions. On the croft, I work in excess of 100 hours a week for less than the UK minimum wage. (Actually, less than the UK tax allowance.)

By far the biggest drawback to what I do now is dealing with customers who have the consumer mindset firmly entrenched in their heads. We're required to give them precisely what they want precisely when they want it at prices akin to those of Chinese-made supermarket jeans. Our "failure" to deliver this results in tirades of abuse. It's not all customers, but it is now a majority. It's a necessary evil as we need the income but, while some individuals are great, I loathe customer relations overall.

The other drawback is that I haven't had a holiday in 10 years. A change in scene and workload would be nice every few years.

On the plus side, I don't have to commute to work. I'm my own boss. I don't have inexperienced fast-tracked bosses telling me how to do the job in a totally nonsensical way. I can tell abusive customers to piss off. I work outside. I work with animals. I have no office politics to deal with. I see our children much, much more. Allowing for the seasons and emergencies, I can do the jobs I want when I want. I can do jobs to my standards and if that means taking more time, I can. I don't have to do a less good job because the accountants say a good job is not cost effective. I don't have to go to the city more than once a year.

And best of all I have time to do all sorts of interesting stuff because they're part of the "job". If I want to make a door, I can. If I want to make sausages, I can. If I want to build a wall from rubble and lime mortar, I can. If I want to cook dinner over an open fire, I can. If I want to make prodigious amounts of cider, I can. If I want to dissect a dead chicken, I can. If I want to build improvised structures from logs, poles and rope, I can. If I want to mow the field inefficiently with a scythe, I can. If I want strip down and rebuild a 1950s Lister engine, I can. If I want to delve into pig genetics, I can. If I want to get into soil chemistry, I can. Crofting is a paradise for an inquisitive tinkerer and experimenter. :mrgreen:
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Post: # 228126Post baldybloke »

I was pondering this very subject today. We have become very busy at work and I do a very specialised job. My boss wants more out of me and is expecting me to do a fair amount of overtime. If I don't then he might threaten shift work and my understudy can't do a late shift due to childminding. Last time this happened I was on permanent late shift for three months which left me little time to do anything.The trouble is I'm not that bothered about doing overtime, especially when looking out the window and seeing glorious sunshine. Why would I want to spend more time couped up at work when I could be getting on with my garden. I'm already behind with my planting and the improvements that I want to make.
Ok extra money is always useful but I've got to the age and level of security where it's not the be all and end all. Living a fairly frugal existance and not blinded by the consumer culture, I want for little. Also I have a couple of friends of my generation that have life threatening illnesses so I want to enjoy my time now, while I can. I don't think that's too much to ask.
Has anyone seen the plot, I seem to have lost mine?

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Post: # 228129Post Flo »

KeithBC wrote:I think that the community we live in may be an exceptional one, but I wonder if others find the same thing. Anyone else busier living the "good life" than they were in the rat race?
Those of us who get round to living the good life and leaving the rat race often have valuable skills that everyone wants to use. Either that or we are the only person(s) available to do all the community volunteer jobs that keep our community running.

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