I was lucky as a kid. Although my folks weren't self sufficient, they did have a deep respect for nature (and for their wallets). I don't know where this respect for nature came from, they grew up in the industrial sub-burbs of a large city, in a time when the phrases recycle and eco-friendly didn't exist. they had no Eco-backgrounds at all. However, they moved away from that to better themselves and to give their kids a better life. They educated us and influenced us to have the same respect for nature. (kind of opposite to your folks by the sound of it Rosendula)
Ok, so the products my parents used weren't exactly Eco-happy as Clara and others pointed out....
these things just weren't on the agenda when I was growing up, sure I was cloth nappied, but in bleached conventionally grown cotton terries, the loo roll was made of and came wrapped in paper from unmanaged forests bleached with dioxins
.....a down side to be sure. Organics, sustainables, etc, just weren’t around, that’s a fair enough comment, and at least we now have those Eco-products available…..but at least my parents weren't throwing disposable nappies in some landfill where they weren’t rotting away. Far more cheap disposables nappies are used today than expensive reusable ones.
The milk. Delivered fresh every morning, the empty bottles were collected from their door, on an electric, harmful emissions free vehicle, and re-used, fresh milk put in their place. Today you have to take your plastic empties yourself to a recycle centre. There are many people out there that find this inconvenient and so the bottles go in the normal rubbish, taking up a huge amount of space in the bin, and end up in landfill. Or you do recycle, but like me you live that far away from a centre you need a carbon spewing vehicle to get there. (We have given up our carbon spewer to save money and reduce our footprints. I car share with my dad and he takes me to the supermarket with him once a week to shop and I take my recycle stuff to their recycling point. But I still have all this bulky plastic waste in my home all week.)
I guess what my view is, is that we now have the organic, fair-trade, eco-friendly products that our parents didn't have. What we have lost is the way of life, the services, and the mind set that they had.
My dad was born not long after the war ended, and my mum in the early 50's, a time when reusing was about saving money rather than the planet, but it still works. Eco-friendly means economical as well as ecological.
Progress/Technology has given us the eco-products we need. Now what we have to do is dispose of the disposable, fast, mass consumerism, lazy society we live in, and return to the older, less wasteful more productive ways.
Our milkmen, family butchers, fruit & veg shops, fishmongers have gone extinct because of the cheap convenient way of the supermarket.
What I would like to see is the cost of organic, fair-trade and eco-products come down in price first of all. So that
everyone has the ability to buy them, not just those that are well off. As much as I want to, I can rarely afford to buy organic, that's why we want to start growing our own!
I’d like to see the return of the milkman, family butcher, grocer, baker and fishmonger, selling affordable, organic food, in reusable or biodegradable packaging. But, until these types of products are as cheap to produce and sell as the supermarket non-organic, economy alternative, it won’t happen.
If everybody recycled that would be great, if nobody needed to recycle that would be better.
I also think that progress and technology have severely diminished the self sufficient skills in the home.
When my mum was little they had no computers, they didn’t even have a TV until she was about ten. She learned to knit, crochet, sew and make clothes, her mother taught her, as her mother had….and so on. When it came to my turn I wasn’t interested, I had computer games and kids TV. I can admit that I would rather have played on the computer than learn to knit. Now, with hindsight, it is something I deeply regret. I would love to know how to knit. A couple of hours knitting a jumper of an evening would be far more productive than sat flicking through thousands of channels, not watching anything! Melting your brain and wasting energy.

Oh I could go on (don't encourage me).
