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Need a hug

Post: # 236544Post misty44 »

My partner of 8 years left today. I thought I would spend the rest of our lives together.

I didn't realise until today how little respect he has for me and how cruel people can be.

Good job I have the garden, which looks great by the way.

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Post: # 236547Post Zech »

Oh Misty, I'm so sorry!

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Sorry to hear your news. Eventually you will come to realise that he wasnt the right person for you and that the right someone is still out there for you to find. meanwhile :hugish:

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:grouphug: So sorry Misty. Ditto what Ruth said :grouphug:
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:hugish: Misty. I'm so sorry.
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:grouphug:

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Post: # 236559Post MEL78 »

so sorry... :grouphug:

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Be strong and maybe it was because a better man is out there waiting for you :grouphug: .
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Really sorry to hear your news.Did you feel it was coming or was it a shock?Its never easy when a relationship ends,but as each day passes,it will become easier.xxxx

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Post: # 236567Post misty44 »

Thank you all for your hugs and support. I really appreciate it.

You are of course right. It wasn't meant to be and eventually (thank you Ruth G) I will realise this, move on and find someone else.

It was a shock really but I suppose it always is. The details are just too much to think about now but he had somewhere else to go...

Only yesterday he was professing his love for me.

Live and learn!!

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Huge hugs heading right for ya chicki. So so sorry to hear your news. We're all here for u. Xxxx

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Post: # 236576Post JulieSherris »

:hugish: From me too Misty.

Take things day by day for a little while and look after yourself. It's natural to want to wallow - and so you should! Forget the things that you think you 'should' be doing (ironing, washing floors etc) they will all still be there later on.

Snuggle up & take some 'me' time. And remember where we all are - we have pretty good shoulders :wink:
The more people I meet, the more I like my garden :wink:

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Oh dear :hugish: this too shall pass and you will emerge from it stronger and better but it would hurt so much right now, do take it easy on yourself, I recommend chocolate and the like (for me alcohol is a bad idea at times like this) so do indulge and be gentle.
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