Thanks for explaining the kcal/calorie thing Zech - it's a lot less scary now!
Keenie - I've found that thinking about what I'm doing as changing my life for the better and learning new good habits, rather than "going on a diet" has really helped. I've taken to going for a long walk along the beach with my friends, a couple of mornings a week, doing a Zumba class and most lately a pilates class - more exercise that I've ever done before - but it's given me something to look forward to rather than sitting on my bum nibbling and drinking wine - I'm now back to mad dancing round the kitchen!
. The knock on effect is that I have more energy and enthusiasm, I'm less "hungry" (for that read bored so I eat!) I've also begun eating a simple but filling breakfast (oats and seeds with milk on) and reducing my protion sizes - and really that's it - not calorie counting, no weighing and measuring my food, not fussing just small positive changes to bad habits. I know that I haven't actually lost anything over the last 2 weeks - but nor have I put anything on, and I'm more toned and energetic. Keep up the good work hun - it's not a hard slog it's a positive challenge
OH - and enjoy the cake!