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Post: # 191794Post crowsashes
Wed Mar 31, 2010 10:18 am

well im back to singledom! guess there are only a few men out their that can understand the ish life :lol: strangely i feel better, guess it was one of those things that was never ment to work, and i now have lots of free time to do the garden :cheers: and sew and do all the things i got moaned about for doing

still time to take some time out, and just chill and hopefully the last few months increased stress level ill go

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Wed Mar 31, 2010 10:24 am

:hugish:
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Wed Mar 31, 2010 10:32 am

sorry to hear it didn't work out, but glad you seem to be looking on the bright side... :hugish:
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Post: # 191799Post Rosendula
Wed Mar 31, 2010 10:36 am

:hugish: Here's to a brighter, Ishy future. :sunny:
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Post: # 191812Post sarahkeast
Wed Mar 31, 2010 11:29 am

Welcome to sanity, I am a few months ahead and it totally rocks :drunken: time to do as you please and not deal with anyone elses drama [apart from the kids] :roll:

Question; does anyone know of any online dating sites that have a 'green' tilt ? guess it would be interesting to see if there are any guys out there who arent trouble ! :scratch:

Enjoy :wave:
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Post: # 191814Post Nomada
Wed Mar 31, 2010 11:30 am

Really sorry it didn't work out, it always sucks when that happens, but sometimes it's a big relief to get out of a relationship that wasn't quite right. You do sound quite positive about it, catch up on the things you enjoy!
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Post: # 191818Post Millymollymandy
Wed Mar 31, 2010 11:46 am

Shame you can't get rid of families as easily! :iconbiggrin: All the best and enjoy your single Ishness for the time being until the right person comes along!
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Wed Mar 31, 2010 12:55 pm

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Post: # 191835Post crowsashes
Wed Mar 31, 2010 1:00 pm

yup i remember it, think the best thing is though we both new it wasnt right and we were more like friends that you know... so we are both happier and well in a few months were gonna see if the friends bit will work.

thank you :grouphug:

id be up for an ish type dating site! gonna give it a few months first though. i still have redecorating to do

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Post: # 191836Post Julysea
Wed Mar 31, 2010 1:09 pm

sarahkeast wrote:
Question; does anyone know of any online dating sites that have a 'green' tilt ? guess it would be interesting to see if there are any guys out there who arent trouble ! :scratch:

Enjoy :wave:
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Haven't tried them myself, though...
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Post: # 191845Post Green Aura
Wed Mar 31, 2010 2:14 pm

Sorry it didn't work out ca, but glad you both seem to have emerged relatively unscathed. Great time for it though eh? just in time to get sowing etc. :thumbright: :hugish: :lol:
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Post: # 191861Post Susie
Wed Mar 31, 2010 7:06 pm

He wasn't the right person for you if he moaned about you doing the garden and sewing! But I'm sorry anyway, it's never nice is it (but great that you've parted on good terms!)

Here's to a nice ishy spring full of possibilities. :flower:
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Post: # 191864Post Milims
Wed Mar 31, 2010 7:46 pm

Well they do say that there are plenty more fISH in the sea - so lets hope that you don't catch any more prawns! I's a hard time when relatinships break up - even for the best of reasons so I'll send you a :hugish: and say keep being as positive as you seem to be!
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Post: # 191866Post crowsashes
Wed Mar 31, 2010 8:00 pm

im glad its over tbh and glad its happened nicely. im just not ready to settle i dont think, or maybe he was the wrong one :scratch: i dont know but its all good. going to take some time out for a while.

the next step is the little one. he wernt his dad but he absolutely loved him to bits, hes only 2 but i know hell ask at some point. just have to wait for that wont i !

ai was impressed today he had his MMR and sisnt even cry :mrgreen:

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Post: # 191867Post JulieSherris
Wed Mar 31, 2010 8:13 pm

Sometimes when you break up with someone, you get that huge sense of relief - and then start feeling guilty!!
Enjoy your space & time & breathe :hugish:

My eldest used to line up the next guy before ending it with the current guy & hadn't been single since she 15.... she moved here & is now so comfortable with herself & Leah being alone that she'd take badly having to share her space now.
When that 'special one' comes along, you'll know - but I'm still of the opinion that some of us are meant to have several 'special ones' - each befitting the era of the time. My present hubby would have been a nightmare for me to deal with 25yrs ago because of his past womanising - but my ex-husband would drive me crazy with frustration at his old fashioned views now I'm older - funny lot, aren't we? :mrgreen:
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