Milims wrote:Why do you need a specifically eco site
? There must be lots of like minded people out there on regular sites that could be picked out by their profile. I met my OH on a general friendship site and we are pretty eco!
my answer to this is, there are alot of players/time wasters about, and at least on an eco orientated site you know that the person is there for the same reasons as you....you are at least on common ground. then you have to wade thru the 'bs' that goes with any dating site
. on a normal site you've got the 'bs' to contend with, plus the hopes that some bloke might like the idea of an afternoon on the allotment, isnt offended by mooncups and wee wipes, and dreams of building a strawbale cottage like you do etc!!.
from experience, being on a dating site aimed at something in specfic, it does help rule things out, and all thats left is to say a polite no thanks to the 20 or 60yrs that message you
apologies...have rambled a bit!